Care Advice
What You Should Know About an Anxiety Attack:
- During an anxiety attack, your child feels overwhelmed by fear.
- Sometimes, they even fear that they are dying.
- Tell your child that the symptoms are scary, but harmless.
- The symptoms most often stop in less than 30 minutes.
- Here is some care advice that should help.
Start Exercises to Help Relax:
- Do anything that has helped in the past.
- Try to help your child put herself into a relaxed state.
- How to relax: lie down in a quiet place. Relax each muscle in your body, from head to toe. Take deep, slow breaths. Think about something pleasant. Pretend you are in a favorite place.
- Since fast breathing is often part of a panic attack, deal with that first.
- Once breathing is under control, the panic attack will often end.
Slow Your Child's Fast Breathing:
- Reassure your child they are healthy and the symptoms are from fast breathing.
- Talk in a calm voice.
- Getting control of their breathing will often stop the anxiety attack.
- Help your child slow down to 1 breath every 5 seconds (12 per minute).
- Try to breathe quietly instead of deeply.
- Try to do belly-breathing, instead of chest breathing. Move your belly button out and in versus raising the shoulders up and down.
- Try to breathe through the nose with the mouth closed.
- Caution: re-breathing into a paper bag is not recommended. Reason: it can make the attack worse.
Anxiety Attacks - Find the Triggers:
- Try to find the events or triggers that bring on anxiety attacks.
- Keep a diary of attacks.
- Write down what happened just before the attack started. Include details of where you were and what you were doing. Also write down the main symptoms, how long it lasted, and what helped.
- Look for patterns.
- Avoid events that make your child anxious.
- If it can't be avoided, teach your child how to cope with those times.
Prevention - Reduce Future Anxiety:
- Help your child talk about events that trigger the anxiety. Talk about how to cope with these triggers the next time they occur.
- Help your child worry less about things he or she can't control.
- Exercise each day. Being active helps manage stress.
- Teach your child the importance of getting enough sleep (at least 8 hours each night). You can cope with stress better if you get enough sleep.
- If over-achievement is the cause of your child's anxiety, help your child find more balance.
- Do something fun and relaxing each day. Examples are playing music, walking, reading, or talking with friends.
Avoid Caffeine Products:
- Avoid or reduce drinks with caffeine in them. Reason: it is a stimulant and can make anxiety worse.
- Examples are coffee, tea, colas, and energy drinks.
What to Expect:
- The symptoms most often stop in less than 30 minutes.
- Future attacks will happen, so learn how to manage them.
Resource - NAMI Helpline:
- If your child is already in treatment, call your mental health provider.
- If not, call your doctor or find a local mental health resource.
- For non-urgent concerns, go to the National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) website.
- NAMI Helpline is an information and referral source for finding local mental health programs. Their toll-free phone number is: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264).
- NAMI is not a 24/7 crisis line.
- For urgent mental health crises, call the 24/7 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988.
Call Your Doctor If:
- Anxiety attack does not end within 30 minutes using this advice
- Anxiety attacks become more frequent
- Your child has never been seen for these attacks
- You think your child needs to be seen
- Your child becomes worse
Remember! Contact your doctor if you or your child develop any "Contact Your Doctor" symptoms.